Love Possibility Quiz: How do you know whether a mate really loves you or not?

Let us pause and ponder for a second on this love relationship quiz. How do you know whether a mate really loves you or not?

Without a doubt, this love possibility quiz is certainly worth considering.

Well, are you a wealthy person? Have you ever had cause to wonder whether your marriage mate or lover has genuine love and affection for you?

So, how do you know whether a mate really loves you or not?

Well, the truth is that it is pretty difficult for someone very wealthy to determine whether or not a relationship partner has true or genuine love for him or her simply from a mere observation of that person. And why is that?

Well, the reason is pretty obvious, isn't it? It is due to the fact that money is a great motivator.

Even 50 Cent, the famous rap artist, sang about this in his 21 Questions, where one of his lines goes like this: "lf l didn't smell so good, would you still hug me?"

ln other words, it is the desire of everyone to associate with the wealthy, prominent and influential persons in the society. Thus, it is very difficult for someone very wealthy to determine whether or not a relationship partner has true or genuine love for him or her.

On the other hand, when a person has very little in terms of material wealth, the matter of who has real love or not for him or her is pretty cut and dry.

A Real-life Scenario

Now, let's consider a real-life scenario to drive the point home as far as this particular relationship quiz is concerned.

Let us suppose that a young man that we will simply refer to as Fred went through his teenage years and school without having any serious relationship with a girl until he finished university. He also finished Youth Service (one year mandatory government service for all Nigerian fresh graduates) without finding love.

He was very fortunate though as he immediately got employed in a multi-national company within the first year of finishing youth service. Soon enough, within a short time, he bought his first car and also moved into a 3-bedroom apartment at a decent area in the suburbs.

It is at this point that he met a young girl and fell in love with her. He did not engage in a very long courtship with the girl in order to ascertain her true character, but he simply went ahead and married her because he felt that he had found true love.

But, honestly, on what foundation did he base his confidence? After all, he never knew what it meant like to experience poverty or lack before and even after meeting his wife. He already had a well-paying job, had a car and was living well at the time he met the girl he married.

I would understand his confidence if he had married someone whom he knew from his secondary school or even university days and who stood by him as a friend patiently waiting for him to finish school, get done with his youth service (Nigeria Youth Service Corps) and get a job.

No, he married someone who did not go through those experiences with him. So, how can he say with certainty and confidence that he found true love which would eventually stand the test of time? On what basis - tested and trusted - did he place his confidence?

The Basics of Love

Please, do not misunderstand me. It is quite possible to meet someone, "fall in love at first sight", get married to that person within a short time and "live happily ever after".

I concede to that fact very much. But, honestly, what is the percentage of relationships of this nature which eventually worked out at last? Well, mine did not work out.

Conversely, is it not equally true that many married women have abandoned their marriages even after having as many as eight (8) children to seek the "better" life with someone else, hence disregarding their marriage vows and leaving the men to their own fate? Many men never remain the same after the break-up.

I even know of someone who took his wife of 15yrs marriage to London on a vacation while leaving their six (6) children behind in Nigeria - perhaps with the intention to rekindle their first love - only for the woman to refuse to return with him to Nigeria at the expiration of the 30 days vacation. The man never remained the same when he returned to Nigeria. He later developed high blood pressure (hypertension) which eventually resulted in stroke leading to his untimely death at the age of 58.

This is also a pointer to the fact that relationships can turn sour even after many years of the relationship being established.

True Love At First - How Attainable?

But, this is not to say that true love cannot be identified right from the onset. As a matter of fact, it is indeed possible to study the character of a girl suitable for marriage and know for certain that a prospective relationship has a guaranteed chance of success right from the onset.

Likewise, the girl can equally study her prospective suitor and determine right from the onset that his love for her is genuine and real (see the true love calculator for a detailed point-by-point analysis of how to determine the degree of love in a relationship).

Bottom Line

It is true that many people today are either married or in a relationship.

But, it might surprise you to know that many persons have a selfish motive for being in the relationship. Or, don't you think so?

Honestly, l strongly believe that money has become a huge paramount factor in majority of love relationships nowadays, prompting this relationship quiz of mine.

Thus, l do not think that a wealthy person has done anything extraordinary if he gets a girl to "fall in love" with him and eventually get married to him! After all, he has money - which is the centre-piece attraction of at least 90% of all girls, by my estimation. Or, don't you agree?

After all, he is capable of providing everything a girl wants, isn't he? So, why won't he get almost all the girls to flock around him and all expecting to be the lucky girl that would practically drag him to the altar?

But, let all the wealth go away and let's see if even one single girl would remain as the "last girl standing" and be willing to continue to stay on in the relationship, even for a day longer!

This therefore signals a call to action by all true love advocates like myself by pondering and reflecting deeply on this relationship quiz.

Well, if it is your utmost desire to determine whether your mate or lover loves you or not, you can use the true love calculator to conduct a simple test of the degree of love in your relationship. You can also do a compatibility test to find out whether both of you are better suited for each other or not.

Thereafter, you may discuss your findings with your mate or lover.

But, let me know your response on this relationship quiz. What is your opinion?

Here is the relationship question once again: How do you know whether a mate really loves you or not?

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