Breaking the Evil Cycle of Failure
from One Generation to the Next!

Breaking the evil cycle of failure from a long line of generations is not an easy one at all. At times, the factors involved appear so complex in nature that it might even seem like an insurmountable mountain-like edifice. When this happens, many persons tend to become faint-hearted and even give up altogether.

However, as we will soon see, breaking the evil cycle of failure need not be so scary and fear-inspiring as to warrant giving up altogether and accepting failure as "God's will" in our lives. Of course, failure is not the destiny for anyone by God or anyone else, for that matter.

So, the first thing to do is to have the mindset of success. What is the mindset of success? The mindset of success has to do with believing and accepting the fact that you are not under a "generational curse" as many preachers are inclined to indoctrinate their followers with. Additionally, refuse to blame anyone for your seeming failure in either your business, relationship or other aspects of your day-to-day existence.

Consequently, you need to have a firm conviction that you can surmount and soar above your present unpleasant situation and indeed succeed at all your endeavours. Yes, you can be whatever you want to be! Simply be fully resolute that you will not let anyone or any situation in your life, no matter how unpleasant, tell you different!

From this point on, we will consider the various aspects and factors involved in breaking the evil cycle of failure.

Factors Responsible for the Evil Cycle of Failure

The evil cycle of failure is like a snowball which cannot begin at all without any initial factor triggering it. It is like the forest fire in the dry harmattan season that can be swiftly destructive in an instant, but it needs a little spark to ignite it into a big consumming furnace.

In other words, there are some factors which are responsible for the evil cycle of failure which serves as fuel feeding it with more destructive power and force.

The various factors which are responsible for the evil cycle of failure are as follows:

$$$$$ Human Nature - Developing a Consistent
Pattern of Failure

The most formidable opponent which is responsible for the evil cycle of failure is human nature itself. It is human nature to develop a consistent pattern of doing things. Haven developed a pattern, we become so used and accustomed to a particular way of doing things that it almost becomes like the norm in our lives.

Thus, for us to now change these well-entrenched pattern in our lives which may have to do with our personality traits, attitude and work habits becomes extremely difficult, if not impossible, to accomplish.

So, what invariably happens is that we take a look at our lives and see a desirable change, either through the advice of a friend, a relative, an acquaintance or through our own personal observation, but we find ourselves powerless to change the pattern in our lives.

Hence, we continue to do things the way we've been accustomed to doing without stopping to consider for a moment the possibility of a change. Human nature is truly a bitch, isn't it? Of course, it is!

On the other hand, no one can deny the fact that it is truly desirable when our pattern of doing things revolves around the proper and right direction - though what constitute the right and proper direction is relative to each individual person and may be a subject of heated debates.

However, when it comes to developing a consistent pattern of failure it truly is an undesirable aspect of human nature that everyone can do without.

But, seriously, why should you expect a different outcome or result when you insist on continuing to do things the way you've been accustomed to doing?

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$$$$$ People Forget Easily

Aside from developing a consistent pattern of doing things, another aspect of human nature is that people forget very easily.

And that is why when an expectant mother in the labour ward is experiencing excrutiating pain as a result of an unduly delayed labour, she may rain all forms of abuses on her husband - a spectacular case of transfer of aggression. In some cases, some women in labour have been known to even swear that they will never give in to their husbands' love advances ever again!

But when the labour is past and she is handed over her bundle of joy a few minutes later, she forgets completely about all the excrutiating pains of labour and even her oath that she would never give in to her husband again.

In many respects, some persons are like that expectant mother in the labour ward when it comes to the evil cycle of failure. And that explains why they seem to make the same mistakes over and over again in their business, their love relationships and other activities in their lives. They quickly forget all about the failure and all factors responsible for it in a very short time after it is past.

Similarly, it is often said that experience is the best teacher. But, if that is true, then the world ought to be full of so many wise and hugely successful persons who have been taught by experience.

But, is this the case in reality? Of course not! It appears that people forget easily and as such do not learn anything from their own experience of failure or that of others.

Consequently, a conscious or sub-conscious refusal by people to learn from their own experience or that of others over time in a particular activity or business endeavour paves the path towards continuing in the evil cycle of failure from one generation to the next.

$$$$$ A Lack of Focus

Many people experience what may be termed a career or business crisis in their day-to-day endeavours. Thus, they appear to lose focus about the type of career or business that they want to pursue in life.

In the case of students, they may start out studying a particular course, but as time goes on, they suddenly feel that the particular course that they were studying will "not do it for them". So, they change to a different course. Some students have even been known to start out a different course altogether while in their final year at college.

Many people in business too express this same lack of focus. They try their hands at everything, often without having a complete knowledge of that particular business they are going into. They see other people doing the business and seem to be succeeding at the business or hear that the business "pays huge dividends"; so they plunge into it in much the same manner as a person who lacks a knowledge of swimming plunge into a swimming pool without any life-jacket on.

While commenting on this category of persons in his internet classic book, "Why People Fail", the world-renowned author and head of Sitesell Inc., Ken Evoy stated, "This person gives up at the first or second obstacle. Ultimately, every project seems to have something wrong with it. Or the work is just "not worth it"". So, they try their hands at everything and quit at everything they try their hands on.

Additionally, after trying their hands at several things and they fail to achieve the desired result, these sort of people tend to become cynical of those who have succeeded in similar businesses or projects. They consequently develop an attitude problem and conclude that those successful persons must have a magic wand of success.

On the other hand, they accept failure as a part of their own personal lives and believe that the good luck that must be shinning on those who are successful will of a neccessity fail them on a good day. Yes, indeed, they come to expect failure as inevitable in their own lives.

Societal Conditioning and Labelling

The society is also partly to blame for perpetuating the evil cycle of failure in many people's lives. How is this done? Simple. By societal conditioning and labelling.

Many people have been mentally conditioned and labelled with derogatory and unpleasant titles being attached to their family generations. And, quite often, such labels stick to such individuals like a second cloak or apparel that is difficult to pull off or remove like an indellible marker.

Hence, it is not uncommon to hear the following description made of certain people in a particular neighbourhood: "He is a thief, from a family of thieves!"

Or, "Oh, that's Agnes, the whore! Did you know that her mother and her own mother before her used to hang around street corners waiting for men to pick them up for a pleasurable groovy ride?"

The derogatory description is often accompanied by a sneer and a look of utter disgust on the face of the person giving the often unsolicited "most valuable information".

So too is failure. Many persons have been labelled with the unwholesome label of failure. "Oh, Sam! l always knew he would turn out a no-good!" Or, "A bum he has always been and a bum he will always be!" Or, "l am highly disappointment at you because you have never made a single decision that brought progress all your life!"

Is that not simply amazing and an unfounded generalization? But, as unbelievable as it seems, many people are conditioned and labelled by the society unjustly in this manner.

The Principle of Cause and Effect

lf you have read this article up to this point, it means only one thing - that you have not achieved your life-long ambitions and goals and you are yet to reach where you desire to be. But yourself, what is holding you back from achieving your goals and aspirations?

Ask yourself again: "who are my friends?" Who do you hang around and spend most of your time with? It is a common saying that birds of a feather flock together. So, who are your friends? Are they successful people with good motivational attitude and carriage?

In this wise, the holy book has this wise counsel at Proverbs 13:20: "He that is walking with wise persons will become wise, but he that is having dealings with the stupid ones will fare badly."

Thus, in order to be successful at breaking the evil cycle of failure, you need to understand that the evil cycle of failure is fed on this fundamental principle of cause and effect. In other words, if you surround yourself with factors and individuals associated with failure, the end result can only amount to one thing - failure!

Consequently, success is not dependent on how brilliant or intelligent a person is, or on the level of a person's spirituality, but on the fundamental principle of cause and effect.

l will expantiate further on the principle of cause and effect in the the greatest personal development book that you will ever read: "Breaking the Evil Cycle of Poverty from One Generation to the Next!"

Guaranteed. This book will certainly give you all the motivational inspiration you need to take your dreams and aspirations to the next level! Remember to bookmark this page, keep a reminder of it in your pocket diary or mobile and come back to this page precisely June 22nd, 2011, the schedule date of release of this awesome book.

Strategies to Breaking the Evil Cycle of Failure

Let us now examine some of the strategies involved in breaking the evil cycle of failure. Briefly speaking, these strategies are as follows:

• Birds of a feather flock together. So, surround yourself with factors and individuals who are associated with success in order to successfully break the evil cycle of failure.
• Human Nature is a bitch. So re-examine your pattern and identify the factors that is responsible for the pattern of failure in your life.
• Learn from your past mistakes and that of others and avoid repeating those mistakes ever again.
• Learn to develop tenacity and focus on a particular field or profession and become the expert to consult in that field
• Refuse to allow any unpleasant situation or individuals prevent you from reaching. As a matter of fact let everything and everyone who is not a positive factor in your life go! For a detailed discussion on when and how to put an end to a dead relationship, please see the page: When and How to Put An End to a Dead Relationship

The above strategies will be expantiated further in the book: "Breaking the Evil Cycle of Failure from One Generation to the Next!"

The Book: "Breaking the Evil Cycle of Failure!"

lf you read only one book this year, let it be "Breaking the Evil Cycle of Failure from One Generation to the Next!" Even if you are already successful, you simply do not want to miss this book.

What you have seen and read on this page is just a preview and the tip of the iceberg in terms of what this amazing book contains.

We will examine in breath-taking detail all the fine points that have been dealt with on this page and a whole lot more on how to develop and sustain the mindset of success. And, finally, we will similarly consider the recipe of success; and profer result-oriented approach to successfully breaking the evil cycle of failure.

To this end, the following areas shall be looked at in detail:

• The Failure Concept
• What is a Generational curse as used losely by many so-called "men of God"?
• Expecting and Praying for a Miracle
• How to Eliminate Your Failure Barriers
• The Role of Parents in Breaking the Evil Cycle of Failure
• How to have the Mindset of Success
• The Role of Attitude and Self-will regarding having the Mindset of Success

Like l said before, you simply do not want to miss this appealing book: "Breaking the Evil Cycle of Failure from One Generation to the Next!" See you in June!

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