The Perfect Relationship Advisor Newsletter - February 2011 Edition:

I hope you had a good Lovers' Day celebration? If you did, that is good to know. But, if you didn't for one reason or the other or perhaps simply because you may not have found genuine, undying, true love (like myself), well not to worry. All hope is not lost. Yours is just around the corner.

Well, since this is the season of love, it is appropriate to talk about love once again. In other words, the reason for this message to you is centred around love. But, "whether you like it not, believe it or not, whether it even makes sense to you or not - it is immaterial. The only thing that matters is that it is love, not money, that makes the world go round!" That is my favourite love quote of all time which was adapted and made popular by my good self.

That love quote is quite understandable indeed because everyone, rich or poor, regardless of social status, age, race, educational or societal background, has a love story to tell. And that love story may either be good or bad or descriptive of the typical love story of people from a particular area or not - depending on the way you decide to look at it.

Now, love scammers and their modus operandi are not new to many of us. What we have been accustomed to having with love scams though is a person posing as a very beautiful girl on relationship forums like Fotochatter, Itsmy and the rest of them. Usually, it is the so-called "girls" that are the first to initiate contact and let you know that they saw your profile on that relationship forum and would like to have a relationship with you. Then they would exchange personal contacts and e-mail addresses with you and even request that you call them asap (as soon as possible) so that you can connect with them quickly.

Then they would send an e-mail to you to tell you of the misfortune that befell their family and that they happen to be the "only surviving person" in their family with no other relative alive. Then they would tell you that their father left them with a huge amount of money in dollars or pound sterling. So, where do you come in? They would tell you that they want someone they can trust who will agree to be their marriage partner and manage the money for them. (See a classical example of this sort of love scam on the following web page: Love Scams).

So, almost everyone is well aware of their well-worn usual strategy of defrauding their unsuspecting victims.

As a result of this, they are getting very clever and more cunny by the passing minute. And do not ever make the mistake to think that only males pretending to be females and arranging female accomplices are the only ones who are involved in this fraudulent love scams which they refer to as "business". That would be a very fatal assumption indeed. Recent observation has revealed that female scammers are becoming as active and commonplace as their male counterparts nowadays. And they have opened a network centre on Facebook to give the widely-acclaimed decent place of contact for people from all walks of life a bad name.

Love Scam on Facebook? Unbelievable! But incredible or not, better Believe It! Because it is REAL!!!

Does the name OLUWAYEMISI ANN EMUZE mean anything to you? It does? Is she a friend on your friends' list? She isn't? Very good. Then, DO NOT make her a friend. But, if she is, it would be wise on your part to watch her closely. I am not saying that you should confront her with the accusation of being a love scammer or remove her from your friends' list or block her altogether. No, that would not be a good approach because l would like her to increase her fraudulent activities - hopefully, without more people succumbing to her feminine charm and paying her more money - so that we can have more evidence against her in order to put her out of her fraudulent "business" completely.

Additionally, you cannot rely on just what l am telling you here to pass judgment on her - especially if you have no cause to do so. On the other hand, all I am saying is that you should WATCH HER CLOSELY. Additionally, apply your sixth sense as you do this. If she tells you hard luck stories about her dad making a wrong financial investment and losing all his money or about her mum being seriously sick, or about being robbed by bandits or about her daughter which she had out of wedlock being hospitalised and in a critical condition at the hospital while screaming to you for help with the fake cry of distress: "Rasheed, wat is all dis, y is dis happening 2 me... God!!! nutin must happen 2 my daughter oooooo!!! Am going crazy baby, I cant tink straight again o", do not listen to her! Ignore her completely!

The lest thing you would want to do is send her money - except, of course, you are the typical Father Christmas or a social philanthropist who has nothing better to do with his money but throw it away to online robbers. And that is because what would ultimately happen is that you keep on sending money to her non-stop without her ever fulfilling her part of the bargain to pay you a visit in order to consummate the relationship.

You may continue to do this for a very long time until something will inevitably snap to bring you back to your senses to realise that you have been played a fool for so long, too long. Or, if you are the very sceptical and highly suspicious type like myself and refrain from sending her money until you decide to take the relationship to the next level, by the time you send her money that is the last you will ever hear of her! Why? Simple! You have been scammed!

Love scam? Of course. The procedure is still the same as we have known it for a very long time now. It is the strategy that has been slightly modified.

Now, let us look at the latest tactic or strategy of love scammers on the internet nowadays.

Latest Tactic of Love Scammers

Everyone is well aware that Facebook is one of the most respectable meeting point of people from all works of life. Eminent personalities, policy makers and implementors from across the globe have a profile on Facebook. And so are the low-life and social degenerates of the earth. So what happens? Everyone, good or bad, respectable or fraudulent, meet on Facebook.

Facebook is not primarily a place for establishing love relationships, but for connecting with old friends, acquaintances, family members, as well as people from similar interest or work group. But that does not prevent people searching for love from trying to establish new love relationships on Facebook. As a matter of fact, many married couples or others presently in a relationship got their first contact on Facebook. So, how do you differentiate good persons from bad ones, or in the words of Jesus Christ, "separate the wheat from the chaff"?

It is simple. By observation. Here is a vivid description of how love scammers operate.

One way that love scammers operate nowadays is to gain the trust of those they intend to defraud in order to perfect their love scam.

Many business people know that trust is very crucial and critical in business. Even in love relationships, trust is very vital. Love scammers, or "online robbers", have become very well acquainted with this. So, they have modified their strategy slightly to include gaining the trust of their would-be preys.

Here is a typical example. A female love scammer will create a profile on Facebook and indicate in her info, Relationship Status - "Single", Looking For - Friendship, Relationship, Networking. If you are looking for a relationship too, you will contact her and get talking. Before you know it, within a space of just a month, she will start professing love for you and start to tell you about her family. She will be very careful not to start with hard luck stories from the very first day until you are about two months into the relationship; because she knows that it will scare you away. So, she will leave the hard luck story to the time when she has gained your trust completely.

Additionally, she will maintain multiple profiles on Facebook for dubious intentions. Be particularly suspicious, if "Yemisi" or someone posing with a different name ask you to befriend a sister of hers - claiming that it was that person who prevailed on her to give the relationship between herself and yourself a chance. It is all an attempt to bring in the presence of other "people" to lend credence to the genuiness of her so-called "love". How very intelligent love scammers can be! That "person" will even send you a message to support "Yemisi's undying love for you". She will tell you: "You are all she's got". It is the duplicate profile of Yemisi. It is still her that is pretending to be someone else and sending the message to you to make Yemisi's profession of love look real.

Right from the onset, she will give you the impression that she is a very Godly person from a very Godly home who spend most of her time in "church". She will even tell you that she belong to the choir in church. And to prove it, she will sing to you on phone. If nothing else convinces you, that should convince you. She is genuine. Her profession of love for you is genuine. She will even pray for you in the fashion that modern-day "religious persons" do - praying that you receive breakthroughs upon breakthroughs in everything that you do and that the Lord should bless the work of your hands. Your conclusion? She must be real. She will tell you again and again with every little opportunity that she has that she loves you. But, do not be deceived! It is all a huge love scam! Yes, she is leading you on! Remember, if it looks TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, it usually is!

Having gained your trust completely, she will change the relationship status on her info page to: IN A RELATIONSHIP. Thereafter, the hard luck stories will begin. She will start telling you hard luck stories about her dad making a wrong financial investment and losing all his money and about her mum being seriously sick and in the hospital, and about being robbed by bandits and about her daughter which she had out of wedlock being hospitalised and in a critical condition at the hospital while screaming to you for help with the fake cry of distress: "Rasheed, wat is all dis, y is dis happening 2 me... God!!! nutin must happen 2 my daughter oooooo!!! Am going crazy baby, I cant tink straight again o".

But, take note that even though she tells you all these hard luck stories, she will never ask you for money. Love scammers realise that they need to gain people's trust and confidence - put them in a "willing-to-buy" frame of mind - before they would be more than willing and even glad to part with their hard-earned money to support their cause; because by then they would see their cause as a worthwhile one, that their money is being wisely spent.

So, the love scammers have learnt to become extraordinarily patient as they "work" on their would-be victim. Thus, "OLUWAYEMISI ANN EMUZE" or someone using a different name will NEVER ASK YOU FOR MONEY as she tells you all her different stories of hard luck. That in itself should make you suspicious. Why tell you about all these hard luck stories without asking you to help her? It is the perfect excuse she needs to gain your trust - that it is not about the money. It is about you.

She will even tell you: "Despite all the things l am passing through, l want you to know that l love you very much!" In other words, they will put you in such a situation that it would seem wicked of you if you don't offer to help. But, if you are very sceptical and suspicious like myself and apologise for your inability to help, she will waive it away with the back of the hand as if it is immaterial. "Oh, don't let my problems bother you very much. I will sort myself out somehow. Just know that I love you!". She repeats the words "I LOVE YOU!" a thousand times a day to you as if it holds the magic touch until you begin to believe it that she must really love you.

But, hold on a second! If she was going to "sort herself out somehow", what was the point of her telling you about the problem? What? Yes, it can only be for one reason. She appeal to your "milk of human kindness" and natural tendency to respond favourably to a "close friend's" plight or problem in order to alleviate the perceived sufferings of such individuals - without knowing that it is all one huge hell of a love scam that is meant to serve only one purpose - Yemisi's own selfish and fraudulent ends. So what happens?

After you have consistently paid money to support OLUWAYEMISI ANN EMUZE, her so-called "daughter" and her family, sooner or later, you must want to establish physical contact with her. So, you decide to send her money for transport fare to finance her trip to the place where you reside. Once you have done that, she will tell you that her parents are against the trip and that she is attempting to act in disobedience of their wishes. And to make it look real and genuine, a woman posing as "OLUWAYEMISI's mother" will call you and ask you if you are Rasheed. When you answer in the affirmative, she will continue her story like this:

"Yemisi left the house in anger on her daughter's birthday saying she was going to visit you. Now, everybody in the house are worried and she left the house just like that. Is it morally right for Yemisi to visit a man she has never met and go to a place that she has never been all her life?" Before you know it, you find yourself apologising to "Yemisi's mother" and telling her not be offended, that you will see what you can do about it. "Rasheed, it is only you who can stop her. Her father has gone to the Bus park to look for her and bring her back."

But, take note that "Yemisi's mother" did not call you before this time to tell you that she is against the relationship. It is only after you have paid money into Yemisi's account that she decides to call you. Sensible, is it not? After the cookie is safely in the bag then drop a small spanner in the works to stop the chain process and leave you feeling - what? Yes, you guessed it! Duped!

Thereafter, you will call "Yemisi" and tell her about the exchange between "her mother" and yourself. She will reply you that she is at the Bus park waiting for the vehicle to be filled so that she can leave "Lagos" to join you. She will tell you: "What l want right now more than anything else in the world is to be with you and be in your arms". But, those are just mere words that does not amount to anything, if not acted upon, right? Of course, ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS! Anyway, you will believe her and she will tell you: "I just pray that my daddy does not come here to stop this journey". After that conversation, try her line again, it is switched off.

Of course, you will be worried. Did she make the journey again or did her father come to the bus park to drag her away like a 16-year old teenager - rather than the 20-something years old girl that she is - in a spectacular theatrical manner to stop her from travelling? But, she will not communicate with you in any way whatsoever for more than a day. When you are able to communicate with her again, she will tell you that her father came to the Bus park and created a scene and forced her to go back home and that he seized her phone. Too good to be true? Of course! If indeed that is what happened the way she has told you, why didn't she call you through some other person's phone - maybe begging "her mother" to let her use her phone to tell you that she could not make it again in order to put your mind to rest? No answer to that one. Why? Because it is a huge love scam! That's why!

Yes, it is all a huge love scam! She is like a spirit! She will collect your money and will NEVER EVER pay you that critical visit to justify her profession of love for you; because her parents "are against the visit" - the visit of a girl of 26yrs of age to someone that she has agreed to marry! But, they are not against her collecting money from a "total stranger"! Now, l leave you to chew on that for a while and be the judge of it all!

Let's Maintain the Decency of Facebook

Indeed, Facebook is a place for decent and hardworking people. Thus, it pains me greatly to see the activities of fraudsters like the one narrated above take place here. It gives the widely respected social networking medium a very bad name for the rest of us. Personally, I am passionate about true love and as such I will never keep quiet when I see activities of love scammers happen to me personally or brought to my attention by others.

So, I would appreciate it greatly if you would help to keep Facebook as a decent and respectable place for the rest of us. Thus, if you have a similar story to this one or you have been scammed in any way by any one, male or female, please do not hesitate to let me know about it. Simply send a message to me or post your report on the Mobile Companions wall and l will collate all the reports from everyone and send them to the management of Facebook so that those profiles can be shut down.

I am aware that majority of us are decent, responsible and hardworking people. But, there are a few persons among us who are "bad eggs" and we need to remove them from our midst in order to maintain the good reputation of everyone. So, let it be known to all the love scammers out there that we are on to them and will make the place too hot for them to operate.

And here is a little advice for the females. If someone of the opposite sex indicates interest in you to initiate a relationship and you are simply not interested in the relationship or you do not have the courage to see it through, please, please, please, for the love of God, do not lead him to believe that you are ready to enter a relationship and possibly get married to him.

It is wicked if you do that! It is even devilish if you go ahead to collect his money with the pretence that you have agreed to the relationship when in reality you have someone else or are simply not ready for a relationship. And, mind you, the person may forgive you, but God will never forgive you! And take note that whatever goes around, comes around. You may be succeeding and enriching yourself fraudulently right now, but when you will be made to pay back all that you have stolen unjustly, I do not think you will find it funny at all.

Having said that, I know that there are so many decent and respectable girls and women on Facebook. But, the problem is that a few individuals among them (quite an insignificant amount really - but, you know as they say, "a little leaven ferments the whole lump") are making it look as if that it is the trend everywhere, both on Facebook and on the internet generally. But, it is simply not true.

So, ladies, l implore you to join forces with me to reduce the incidence of love scams on Facebook. Please bring to my notice your observation of any incidence of love scam here on Facebook or even elsewhere on the internet. And, please, please, please, ladies, do not see this campaign as a malicious vendetta against all members of the female folk. That is not my intention at all. And l do hope that you understand.

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N.B.: Please see more love scams and the practical measures to take to protect yourself from love scam artists on the following web pages: Love Scams and Online Romance Caution